https://youtu.be/RgU7zyVIbts?list=PLDs0MNGNWQrSdk-9pgYuTJwNrFQTe4yE-

https://youtu.be/KXYIYlMhx88?list=PLDs0MNGNWQrSdk-9pgYuTJwNrFQTe4yE-

You say I don't want to go

Baby don't cry

Hope you don't cry

You say you're going to be alone

胡海泉/汪小敏《葉子》 《天賜的聲音》EP5 20200328 /浙江衛視官方HD/

https://youtu.be/ore1Q0XILBI

葉子 歌詞 合輯 ※ Mojim.com

原曲：阿桑-葉子

https://youtu.be/VeK3j4_IiYc

P.S. I LOVE YOU

Song by Paul Partohap

The only place I call home

https://www.dralisoncook.com/when-you-lose-yourself-in-love/

When you lose yourself in love

April 29, 2021 by Alison Cook

It happens all the time. At first, your new love relationship felt great. But, over time, you started to notice cracks in the foundation. Maybe your spouse changed, or started to show true colors that were there, but hiding, all along. Or, maybe you are the one who is changing. Maybe you committed to someone else before you knew yourself, and buried parts of you are starting to show up. Perhaps you entered into this relationship with unrealistic expectations. You thought you could change him with your love, only to discover you’re exhausted. Or, maybe you slowly started to set yourself aside in order to meet some clear, albeit unspoken, expectations. You notice yourself wondering about any of the following:

1. “Why was I first drawn to this person?”
2. “When did he start treating me this way?
3. “How did I get so lost in this relationship?”

No matter how it happened, you are discovering that you have lost yourself in love. Instead of becoming more of the person God wants you to become, you’re a remnant of yourself. Instead of feeling confident, clear, and ready to serve others as a team, you notice yourself consumed by this relationship. You might be:

1. feeling anxious all the time
2. trying to control his behaviors
3. resentful even as you try to keep the peace
4. going through the motions; pretending like things are fine
5. numbing out your feelings through food, substances, or entertainment.

Over the past two decades, I’ve worked with hundreds of women who feel lost in their most intimate relationships. Many of them aren’t sure why or what went wrong. Often, they are angry at their spouse and convinced he is the one who needs to change. Sometimes, he is the main source of the problem. Sometimes he isn’t. However, whether it’s his fault or not, the truth is: change can only start with you.

http://Boundaries For Your Soul Book - Dr. Alison Cook (dralisoncook.com)

What if your overwhelming emotions hold the keys to your success?

Do you control your feelings or do your feelings control you? 

Many people allow guilt, anger, or self-criticism to dominate their inner lives and adversely affect their relationships. Maybe you’ve tried to deny these aspects of yourself that you don’t like. You might insist, “I need to get over it,” or “I’ve got to stop thinking that way.” But this approach rarely works. In fact, it usually makes things worse. You want to exemplify wholeness, but don’t always know how to bring calm to the turmoil within.

In Boundaries for Your Soul, Christian counselors Kimberly Miller and Alison Cook describe their faith-based adaptation of the popular Internal Family Systems (IFS) model— a process of bringing peace to your inner world.

“Is there a Spirit-led self within you that emanates lvoe and can lead your inner and outer life? Is it possible to love your inner enemies in the same way that Jesus extolled you to love your outer ones? In this beautifully-written book, Cook and Miller not only show you how to do that but also make a strong case that doing so creates enormous inner transformation and peace, turning former enemies into valuable allies. I am thrilled with the way they have translated my work for a Christian audience and believe this book is an extremely important contribution to our culture’s healing.” Richard C. Schwartz, Ph.D.

"Can I Have The Day With You" ft. Michelle is a song about longing to be with the beloved.

https://youtu.be/mnzW77sr8qg

https://lirik.kapanlagi.com/artis/jeff-bernat-ft-geologic-of-the-blue-scholars/call-you-mine-terjemahan/#google_vignette

One, two, here we go

About not too long ago, I woke up feeling kind of blue (So I)

Picked up my phone and I decided that I hit up you (So then)

We talked for a little while, ask me if I could roll through (So we)

https://youtu.be/yckYCM1sj2w?list=FLEPQ-xXhgrcLaMgE4usRreA

想用一杯Latte把妳灌醉　好讓妳能多愛我一點
暗戀的滋味　妳不懂這種感覺　早有人陪的妳永遠不會

＊看見妳和他在我面前　證明我的愛只是愚昧

https://youtu.be/KmOVNVZEP9o?list=FLEPQ-xXhgrcLaMgE4usRreA

Sudden found this coz INDAHKUS cover this song

"let it flow" ................

Be my only one

IG: beachy.theraphist

Here are 5 simple conversation prompts to help you and your partner build a deeper connection:

1. What is something you learned from your family that you respect and want to carry on? What pattern or cycle from your family do you intend to break or do not want to perpetuate?

2.What are some things you like and disliked from your previous partner or dating relationship? How can I better meet your needs?

3. What is your deepest wound/hurt? How can I help heal that with you?

Proverbs 20: 27

Our inner thoughts are a lamp from the Lord, and they search our hearts. (CEV)

Your spirit is like a lamp to the Lord. He is able to see into your deepest parts.  (ERV)

A man’s spirit is the lamp of the Lord. It illuminates the depths of his heart. (EHV)

https://www.lsmchinese.org/books/07-968-003-09.html

書名：基督徒生命成熟的路

第九篇、基督徒生命成熟的路─出代價買油

馬太二十五章三至四節說到兩件東西，是絕對不同的：一件是燈，另一件是器皿。愚拙和聰明童女的分別不在於燈，而在於器皿裏面的故事；聰明的，在器皿裏預備油，愚拙的，沒有預備油在器皿裏。七節說，「那些童女就都起來收拾燈。」這裏只題到燈，沒有題到器皿。八節說，「愚拙的對聰明的說，請分點油給我們；因為我們的燈要滅了。」這證明當時愚拙的童女，她們的燈是點著的，只是快要滅了；並且說出她們在燈這一面沒有問題，她們的問題在於器皿裏沒有油。

我們必須注意什麼是燈，什麼是器皿，什麼是燈裏的油，什麼是器皿裏的油。這樣，我們才能知道，我們的問題在那裏。箴言二十章二十七節，清楚告訴我們：「人的靈是耶和華的燈，鑒察人的心腹。」這個燈就是人裏面的靈，人裏面的靈乃是神的燈。這裏的「鑒察人的心腹」，也可翻作「鑒察人內裏的各部分」。耶和華在我們人裏面有一盞燈，這燈就是人的靈。神就是借著這盞燈，來鑒察我們人內裏的各部分。人內裏的各部分，就是人魂裏的各部分。